anniversary expectations quiz for couples (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about what anniversaries mean to you: effort, planning, spending, and romance. Then share a link so your partner can take it too—and align on one simple tradition.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for anniversary expectations quiz for couples, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. Get on the same page about planning, effort, spending, and what actually feels romantic—so anniversaries feel good, not stressful.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + choose one simple tradition
What you’ll learn
- What anniversaries mean to each of you
- Your ideal planning + spending vibe
- What “effort” looks like (to you)
- One tradition you’ll actually keep
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Download CouplezThe 15 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhat do anniversaries represent to me most?
- SweetMy ideal anniversary planning style is…
- DeepWhat would disappoint me most on an anniversary?
- SweetThe anniversary gesture that lands best for me is…
- DeepMy comfort level with spending on anniversaries is…
- FlirtyThe anniversary vibe that feels most romantic to me is…
- DeepIf we’re busy, the “minimum viable anniversary” I’d love is…
- SweetDo I prefer celebrating privately or publicly?
- DeepThe thing I most want to feel on our anniversary is…
- SweetMy favorite way to “look back” on our relationship is…
- DeepIf we missed the date, what would help me most?
- SweetA “green flag” anniversary moment is when you…
- DeepWhich anniversary tradition would I actually enjoy?
- FlirtyTonight, the anniversary energy I’d love is…
- DeepIf we picked one anniversary principle as a couple, it’d be…
FAQs
What is an anniversary expectations quiz for couples?
It’s a quick quiz that helps you compare what feels meaningful on anniversaries—like planning, spending, romance, and effort—so you can celebrate in a way that fits you both.
What if one of us wants a big celebration and the other doesn’t?
Treat it like a values trade: pick one “must-have” each (like a note, a date, or a ritual), then keep the rest simple so it stays fun.
Is it okay to celebrate on a different day?
Yes. The goal is intention and connection, not a perfect date on the calendar.
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in 4–8 minutes.
Do we have to answer every question?
No—skip anything. Even a few answers can help you plan a better anniversary.