couple values quiz (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about what you value most in love—respect, honesty, stability, growth, and teamwork. Then share a link so your partner can take it too and you can choose one small habit that protects your values.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couple values quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe way to compare your relationship values—so big decisions feel clearer and conflict stays respectful.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + pick one alignment habit
What you’ll learn
- What you value most in partnership
- Your non-negotiables and green flags
- How to keep values intact during conflict
- One habit that strengthens alignment this week
Get Couplez
One meaningful prompt and a few shared habits — that's your daily 3–5 minute ritual. Available now on the App Store.
Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepThe value I want to feel most in our relationship is…
- SweetI feel most aligned with you when we…
- DeepMy non-negotiable in love is…
- SweetThe best sign we share values is when…
- DeepIn a disagreement, what matters most to me is…
- FlirtyThe value that makes me feel most attracted is…
- DeepI define “commitment” as…
- SweetA value-aligned apology looks like…
- DeepWhat’s most important in how we spend time?
- SweetThe kind of life we’re building that excites me is…
- DeepMy biggest value conflict trigger is…
- SweetI feel respected when you…
- DeepWhat value do I want us to protect most?
- FlirtyThe “we’re aligned” moment that turns me on is…
- DeepIn big life decisions, I prioritize…
- SweetIf we want more alignment, the best first step is…
- DeepMy “green flags” in partnership are…
- SweetWhen we disagree, what helps values stay intact is…
- DeepIf we had one “shared value statement,” it would be…
- DeepOur best values-alignment habit this week would be…
FAQs
What is a values compatibility quiz for couples?
It’s a quick quiz that helps you compare what you prioritize in a relationship—like respect, honesty, stability, growth, and teamwork—so you can make decisions and handle conflict with more alignment.
How does this quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and pick one alignment habit to try.
What if our values don’t match perfectly?
That’s normal. The goal isn’t to be identical—it’s to know where alignment matters most and to build respectful compromises where you differ.
Is this quiz about politics or religion?
It can be, but it doesn’t have to be. This quiz focuses on relationship values like respect, honesty, and teamwork. If you want to include bigger topics, use the results as a calm starting point.
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in 4–8 minutes.