couple roommate phase quiz (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about what you miss and what would help you feel close again. Then share a link so your partner can take it too—and compare without blaming each other.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couple roommate phase quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe reset for couples who feel more like roommates than romantic partners lately.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into. It’s meant to feel light and doable—more like a shared moment than a heavy conversation.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + pick one tiny reconnection move
What you’ll learn
- What kind of connection you miss most
- Your biggest spark-killer in busy seasons
- How your partner reads your signals
- One small ritual to feel close again
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Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhen we feel like roommates, what do I miss most?
- SweetWhat makes me feel most connected on an ordinary day?
- DeepWhat’s most likely pushing us into roommate mode?
- SweetThe smallest gesture that would soften me instantly is…
- DeepIf we had 10 minutes, what would help most right now?
- FlirtyWhat kind of flirting would bring the spark back fastest?
- DeepWhen I’m stressed, what do I need from you emotionally?
- SweetMy ideal weekday “mini date” is…
- DeepWhat’s my biggest spark-killer in long weeks?
- SweetWhat kind of compliment hits me the hardest right now?
- DeepIf there’s tension between us, what’s the best first move?
- FlirtyPick the vibe I’d love most for tonight:
- DeepWhat “team habit” would help us most this month?
- SweetWhat kind of affection do I want more of lately?
- DeepWhen I feel disconnected, what do I tend to do?
- SweetThe easiest way to reconnect with me is…
- FlirtyWhat kind of “initiation” feels best for me?
- DeepWhat do I want us to protect no matter how busy life gets?
- SweetPick a tiny ritual I’d love us to start:
- FlirtyIf we set one spark intention for this week, I’d pick…
FAQs
What does the “roommate phase” mean?
It’s when a relationship starts feeling more like logistics and routine than romance—less flirting, less emotional connection, and less intentional time together.
How does this roommate phase quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and choose one tiny reconnection move.
Is the goal to get a perfect score?
No. Mismatches are the point—they show where your partner’s assumptions don’t match your current needs, which creates an easy conversation starter.
What should we do after we finish?
Pick one small ritual for the week—like a 3-minute check-in, a phone-free meal, or one simple mini date—and try it without pressure.
What if one of us feels more disconnected than the other?
That’s common. Use the results to focus on what would help the disconnected person feel seen and chosen, without making it about fault.