after a fight quiz for couples (repair, then reconnect)
You answer about what helps you feel safe after tension. Your partner takes it from the link too. Then you compare and get back to "us."
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for after a fight quiz for couples, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. Repair faster: what you need first, reassurance that lands, and a calm next step to get back on the same team.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + choose one small repair move
What you’ll learn
- What repair actually works for you (not what sounds good)
- How your partner can help you feel safe faster
- What to do when you need space (without drifting)
- One tiny reset ritual you can use tonight
Get Couplez
One meaningful prompt and a few shared habits — that's your daily 3–5 minute ritual. Available now on the App Store.
Download CouplezThe 15 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepAfter a fight, what do I need first?
- SweetWhat kind of reassurance lands best for me after tension?
- DeepWhen I'm hurt, what's the fastest way back to "us"?
- SweetWhat helps me feel emotionally safe during a tough conversation?
- FlirtyAfter we repair, what kind of closeness helps me reconnect?
- DeepWhat do I most want you to understand about me in conflict?
- SweetWhat's the simplest apology style that works best for me?
- DeepWhen I need space, what does that actually mean?
- SweetWhat's the smallest "repair gesture" that would help right now?
- DeepWhat pattern do I most want us to break as a couple?
- FlirtyWhat kind of "we're okay" energy turns me soft again?
- DeepIf we do one thing after a fight, it should be…
- SweetWhen we're back in sync, what do I want to hear most?
- DeepWhat's the most important thing I want to protect between us?
- FlirtyTonight, what kind of closeness would feel best after repair?
FAQs
Is this therapy?
No. It's a lightweight quiz meant to help you reconnect with less thinking and more clarity—without clinical vibes.
What if we're still upset?
Skip anything that feels too tender. Use it as a gentle reset when you're ready.
Will this start an argument?
It shouldn't if you keep it curious. Treat mismatches as "oh, that's helpful to know," not proof of anything.
How long does it take?
3–7 minutes, then you pick one small thing to try.
Do we need to do all the questions?
No. Even a few answers can give you a clear next step for repair.