This or that questions for couples (answer, then share)
This is a quick “this or that” couples quiz built for easy multiple‑choice answers. You answer first, share a link, your partner answers too, then you compare and talk about what surprised you.
Why “this or that” works so well for couples
This or that questions for couples are popular because they’re simple: pick what fits you, move on, and don’t overthink it. But that simplicity reveals a lot—how you prefer to connect, what kind of date night you actually want, what support lands when you’re stressed, and what makes you feel loved day-to-day.
This page turns “this or that” into a share‑link couples quiz. You answer first, share the link, and your partner answers too. Then you compare your answers side by side. Matches feel satisfying. Differences are the best part—because you get a clear, specific starting point for a short, good conversation.
- Fast multiple choice (no essays)
- Great for busy days and quick check-ins
- Take it separately or together
- Compare answers and talk about one surprise
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + talk about it
What you’ll learn
- Your connection style in quick choices
- Your date-night and affection preferences
- What helps you under stress
- Where you match (and where you don’t)
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Download CouplezThe 15 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- SweetThis or that: the way I feel most connected is…
- SweetThis or that: my ideal date night is…
- FlirtyThis or that: I prefer flirting that’s…
- DeepThis or that: when I’m stressed, I want…
- SweetThis or that: my love “fuel” is…
- DeepThis or that: when we disagree, I prefer…
- SweetThis or that: my best end-of-day vibe is…
- FlirtyThis or that: I’m most into…
- DeepThis or that: trust feels strongest when we have…
- SweetThis or that: the gesture that lands most is…
- DeepThis or that: I want more of…
- SweetThis or that: weekend energy for me is…
- FlirtyThis or that: the compliment that hits is…
- DeepThis or that: I feel safest when we…
- SweetThis or that: the simplest way to feel closer today is…
FAQs
Is this a free this or that quiz for couples?
Yes. You can take the quiz for free and share the link so your partner can take it too.
Are these this or that questions safe / not explicit?
Yes. The vibe is playful and flirty without being graphic. You can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe.
Do we have to do it together?
No. You can take it separately and compare answers later.
What if we choose different options?
That’s normal. Use differences as conversation starters—curiosity beats “who’s right.”
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in a few minutes.