couples affection quiz (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about touch, comfort level, and what makes affection feel good for you. Then share a link so your partner can take it too your answers—and you can try one small ritual together.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couples affection quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe way to align on affection—frequency, comfort level, and what helps it feel warm instead of pressured.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + pick one affection ritual
What you’ll learn
- What kind of affection feels best for you
- What blocks affection (and how to lower pressure)
- How your partner can initiate in a way that feels safe
- One small ritual to try this week
Get Couplez
One meaningful prompt and a few shared habits — that's your daily 3–5 minute ritual. Available now on the App Store.
Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhen it comes to affection, I feel safest when it’s…
- SweetMy favorite everyday affection is…
- DeepThe biggest thing that blocks affection for me is…
- SweetIf you want me to be more affectionate, start with…
- FlirtyThe flirting that gets me in the mood most is…
- DeepMy ideal affection frequency is…
- SweetThe quickest way to make affection feel safer for me is…
- DeepIf I’m not affectionate, I usually want you to assume…
- SweetMy “perfect hello” is…
- DeepPublic affection: my comfort level is…
- SweetWhat kind of affection helps me feel close emotionally?
- DeepThe affection mistake that bothers me most is…
- FlirtyThe best “initiation” vibe for me is…
- DeepWhen we’re out of sync physically, the fix is usually…
- SweetA small affection ritual I’d actually enjoy is…
- DeepMy biggest “yes” for affection is when I feel…
- SweetIf you want to reconnect tonight, I’d prefer…
- DeepThe boundary that helps affection feel better for me is…
- FlirtyPick the message that would make me blush most:
- DeepOur best “affection upgrade” this week would be…
FAQs
What is an affection style quiz for couples?
It’s a quick quiz that helps you compare what kind of affection feels best—touch preferences, comfort level, and what makes closeness feel safe and wanted.
How does the quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and pick one small affection habit to try.
What if we have different comfort levels with affection?
That’s common. The goal is consent + clarity: agree on what feels good, what feels like pressure, and one easy ritual you both enjoy.
Is this quiz explicit?
No. It’s flirty without being graphic, and you can skip any question that doesn’t match your vibe.
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in 4–8 minutes.