love language quiz for couples (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about what makes you feel most loved—words, time, help, or affection. Then share a link so your partner can take it too and learn what lands for you right now.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for love language quiz for couples, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe way to compare how each of you feels loved—so your effort actually lands.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + pick one love-language habit
What you’ll learn
- What makes you feel loved fastest
- Where you and your partner might misread each other
- What support looks like for you under stress
- One simple ritual to try this week
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One meaningful prompt and a few shared habits — that's your daily 3–5 minute ritual. Available now on the App Store.
Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhen I feel most loved, it’s usually because you…
- SweetIf you had 30 seconds to make me feel cared for today, do this:
- DeepWhat “counts” most to me: intention or execution?
- SweetMy favorite kind of compliment is…
- FlirtyThe kind of affection that hits best for me is…
- DeepWhen I’m stressed, what helps me feel loved fastest?
- SweetA perfect “love language” moment for me is…
- DeepWhat makes me feel unseen in a relationship?
- SweetIf we’re reconnecting after a long day, I want…
- DeepI feel most secure when love is shown through…
- SweetWhat kind of “checking in” feels most loving to me?
- DeepIf you only did one love-language thing for a week, pick this:
- FlirtyThe quickest way to turn up the connection for me is…
- DeepWhat’s my biggest “love language” mismatch risk?
- SweetWhen you apologize, what helps me feel it’s real?
- DeepMy favorite kind of support is…
- SweetIf you want me to melt, start with…
- DeepWhat’s the easiest love-language upgrade for us this month?
- SweetA small ritual I’d actually enjoy is…
- DeepWhen love feels low, what do I want you to assume?
FAQs
What is a love languages quiz for couples?
It’s a quick quiz that helps you compare how each of you feels loved—like words, quality time, practical help, and affection—so your effort matches what your partner actually needs.
How does this love languages quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and choose one small love-language habit to practice.
Do we need to agree on one love language?
No. Most couples have different “top” ways they feel loved. The goal is to learn what lands for your partner and make it easy to do more of that.
Is this quiz therapy or diagnosis?
No. It’s designed to be light, practical, and emotionally safe—more like a warm check-in than a clinical assessment.
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in 4–8 minutes.