couples social media quiz (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about phones, privacy, and what feels respectful online. Then share a link so your partner can take it too—and compare to set one boundary that makes you feel safer.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couples social media quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe quiz to align on phones, posting, privacy, and presence—without turning it into a fight.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + set one simple boundary
What you’ll learn
- What “presence” means to you right now
- Your biggest online stress trigger
- How your partner interprets your signals
- One boundary that would feel more respectful
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Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhat bothers me most about phones/social media in relationships?
- SweetWhat makes me feel most “seen” when we’re together?
- DeepWhen I see you on your phone, I most often assume…
- SweetA simple boundary that would help me relax is…
- DeepWhat’s my biggest social media red flag in relationships?
- FlirtyWhat kind of “online” flirting lands best for me?
- DeepHow do I feel about posting our relationship publicly?
- SweetWhat kind of “presence” feels best to me?
- DeepIf I feel jealous online, what helps most?
- SweetWhat would make me feel most protected online?
- DeepWhat’s my biggest “doomscroll” consequence?
- FlirtyWhat’s the best way to bring the spark back after screen time?
- DeepHow do I like to handle sensitive conversations (vs texting)?
- SweetWhat would make our evenings feel better instantly?
- DeepWhat boundary would feel most respectful about posting me?
- SweetIf you wanted to show you choose me, you’d…
- FlirtyPick the message that would make me blush most:
- DeepIf we set one phone rule as a couple, I’d choose…
- SweetWhat would make me feel safest with your online world?
- DeepWhat’s the healthiest “reset” if this topic gets tense?
FAQs
What are social media boundaries in a relationship?
They’re the agreements you make about phones, posting, privacy, and attention—so online life supports your relationship instead of stressing it.
How does this quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and choose one simple boundary to try.
What if we disagree about what’s “private”?
That’s normal. Start with consent: agree on what needs a quick check-in before posting, and what stays between you. Keep it simple and adjustable.
Is this quiz about controlling each other?
No. It’s about clarity and respect—choosing habits that help both partners feel prioritized and emotionally safe.
What’s a good first boundary to try?
Pick one easy rule—like phone-free meals, no phones in bed, or a 10-minute “us first” window—and try it for a week.