couples apology quiz (take it, then share)
Answer a few quick questions about what makes an apology feel real to you—words, understanding, action, or reconnection. Then share a link so your partner can take it too and learn how to repair with you.
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couples apology quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. A quick, emotionally safe way to learn what kind of apology actually lands—so repair feels easier and more loving.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + choose one repair habit
What you’ll learn
- What makes an apology feel sincere to you
- Your biggest repair trigger (what to avoid)
- How your partner can help you feel safe faster
- One small repair ritual for next time
Get Couplez
One meaningful prompt and a few shared habits — that's your daily 3–5 minute ritual. Available now on the App Store.
Download CouplezThe 20 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepWhen I’m hurt, the first thing I need is…
- SweetThe apology phrase that lands best for me is…
- DeepWhat ruins an apology for me?
- SweetI feel most repaired when you…
- DeepMy ideal “repair timing” is…
- FlirtyAfter a good repair, I want closeness that feels like…
- DeepWhen I say “I’m fine,” I usually want you to…
- SweetA small repair move I love is…
- DeepWhat do I need you to avoid during repair?
- SweetThe best apology includes…
- DeepIf an issue keeps repeating, I want you to…
- SweetWhat kind of tone helps me accept an apology?
- DeepWhen I forgive, what I’m really saying is…
- FlirtyPick the post-repair message that would make me smile:
- DeepWhat apology “style” do I trust most?
- SweetIf you want to repair quickly with me, start with…
- DeepThe hardest part of apologizing for me is…
- SweetI feel most respected in repair when you…
- DeepWhat “make it right” move matters most to me?
- SweetOur best repair habit for the week would be…
FAQs
What are apology languages in a relationship?
Apology languages describe what kind of repair feels meaningful to you—clear ownership, feeling understood, changed behavior, or reconnection. Knowing this helps apologies land instead of restarting the fight.
How does this quiz work?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner opens it and takes it too. You compare results and pick one repair habit to try.
What if we apologize really differently?
That’s common. Use it as a translation guide: keep your natural style, then add the one ingredient your partner needs to feel repaired.
Is this therapy or diagnosis?
No. It’s a lightweight, emotionally safe quiz meant to help you repair with less defensiveness and more clarity.
How long does it take?
Most couples finish in 4–8 minutes.