couples conflict resolution quiz (answer, then compare)
Fights aren’t the problem—repair is. Answer a quick quiz about you, share a link, and compare answers so you both know what actually helps you come back to “us.”
What this quiz helps you learn
If you’re looking for couples conflict resolution quiz, this page makes it easy to start and actually finish. Apology, reassurance, time-outs, and aftercare—learn your repair needs and stop repeating the same conflict loop.
This is a quick, emotionally safe couple quiz you can use as a mini check-in, a date-night game, or a reset when you want to feel closer. The questions are multiple-choice and designed to be answered fast (no overthinking), and you can skip any prompt that’s not your vibe. After you finish, you’ll see your answers side-by-side with a simple score—plus plenty of conversation starters. You’ll also find a preview of the questions and FAQs on this page so you know what you’re getting into. It’s meant to feel light and doable—more like a shared moment than a heavy conversation.
How it works
- 1. You answer about you
- 2. You share a link
- 3. Your partner answers for themselves
- 4. Compare + pick one repair habit to practice
What you’ll learn
- What helps you repair fastest after tension
- What makes apologies feel sincere to you
- How you prefer to take breaks (and return)
- A simple repair habit to use this week
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Download CouplezThe 15 couple quiz questions
Want to preview the vibe? Here are the prompts used in the quiz. (The quiz itself includes multiple-choice options for easy scoring.)
- DeepAfter tension, what helps me repair fastest?
- DeepWhen I’m upset, what do I want you to do first?
- SweetWhat kind of “restart” gesture lands best on me?
- DeepMy biggest conflict trigger is usually…
- DeepWhen things get heated, I do best when we…
- FlirtyThe kind of post-repair closeness I like is…
- DeepIf you apologize, what makes it feel real to me?
- SweetWhat kind of words help me soften during repair?
- DeepWhat’s my ideal “time-out” style?
- DeepWhen we repair, what matters most to me?
- SweetMy favorite “we’re okay again” moment is…
- DeepIf repair keeps failing, the best change for me is…
- SweetAfter we repair, what kind of care helps me most?
- FlirtyPick the repair vibe that feels best to me:
- DeepOne repair habit I’d love us to adopt is…
FAQs
What is a conflict repair couple quiz?
It’s a quick quiz that helps you understand what each of you needs after conflict—apology style, reassurance, breaks, and aftercare—so you can reconnect faster.
How do we compare answers?
You answer first, then share a link. Your partner answers for themselves too, and you’ll see a comparison at the end.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s a simple, emotionally safe way to learn each other’s repair preferences and reduce the “same fight, different day” pattern.
What if we need breaks during conflict?
That’s normal. The key is agreeing on a return time. This quiz helps you learn what kind of time-out feels respectful to each of you.
How long does it take?
3–7 minutes, then pick one repair habit to try next time.